I know: I'M HORRIBLE!
I am not ungrateful, however. I remember giving my husband an earful when we were dating for not saying thank you to someone. His response, "I exude appreciation." My jaw dropped open--the NERVE! And yet, here I am twenty-plus years into that relationship, not sending thank you notes. His lack of articulated acknowledgment is by no means his convention, and I don't believe this is a practice I've adopted, so much as another I've abandoned. (He truly is one of the kindest people I've ever known.)
Well, something happened. I received a HUGE, HUGE gift: a box of scrappy goodness that you can't even begin to imagine!! TWENTY-FOUR POUNDS of beautiful papers (Prima, Authentique, Echo Park, Websters, s.e.i), alphas, embellishments, flowers, bling, pearls, and dies. The DIES! So many Nestabilities for a girl who had zero! Whoa! The gift was from my lovely Mother-in-Law and her very generous friend, the Scrap Fairy. The thing is, I don't have direct contact with the Scrap Fairy, so there was no phone call to make, or email to send, or visible means of exuding my immense appreciation with a hug or even a knowing glance.
It would have to be a card.
So, there they are. A card for each, my Mother-in-Law and the Scrap Fairy. I truly enjoyed making them and expressing my gratitude in them. And I know I need to get back into the practice and habit--the civilized and proper etiquette--of sending Thank You notes.
THANK YOU for visiting! I am exuding appreciation! ;)
THANK YOU for visiting! I am exuding appreciation! ;)
Lisa a laughed a little as I read this for I recognized myself (minus 24lbs of paper of course!!)..I do not send out thank you cards either though I really, really do feel the thanks inside (Lame I know!)..well your cards a so lovely, I'm sure they'll mean very much to the ladies!!
ReplyDelete;) I haven't even sent out my wedding thank yous! We got married in 2009. And Christmas cards? Forget about it! Your card looks great- the cover is absolutely beautiful. Thank you for swinging by my blog so regularly- it's incredibly encouraging!
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ReplyDeleteHi Lisa! I can totally relate to being bad at sending thank-you cards. My wedding reception was back in July, and I've still not sent out the thank-you's. I know that according to traditional etiquette, the bride gets one year--but that's pretty pathetic, and I know I've never received a thank-you card any later than a month after the reception! Hopefully one of these days I'll get down to business; I told myself I'd do them over Christmas break but it never happened. At the very least, this post reminded me it's definitely time to do something about it!:-)
ReplyDeleteCongrats on your lovely gifts...you are so fortunate to have crafty family members who know exactly what to buy! I think your card is gorgeous. I love the richness of the colors, the bling, and the shabby chic details. You have created a piece of art in appreciation for your gift, and the recipient will definitely recognize your appreciation!
I too am bad at sending thank you notes, but I have made some in my past. It's the sending that's the problem.
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